Quite some time ago, the absolutely wonderful Becca and I compiled shallow, superficial lists of what we each wished to find in our future partners. (Becca’s list, my list)
Recently I spoke to a… well, let’s call him friend for the purpose of this post, as his name is yet to be determined (Yes, I know, three months and counting). We spoke about how these written and unwritten lists develop over time, get shorter, sweeter - and sharper.
Mine has evolved too, and I guess, that Becca’s has as well (Here’s looking at you, girlfriend)
So here we go, dear followers, written on Pinot and high on life alone, my list update as the start of my tumblr year four is closing in on me.
"My" Dominant is so naturally Dominant that he sees no need to display it in a public setting by meager props as latex, whips and humiliating behavior. He beholds the air, He must behold the air, the air of Dominance, the air of a Master, though he recents being called such
He has a firm hand -
and a keen mind
He is an old soul (The right man will know what I mean)
Sexually charged. Highly charged. Drive and appetite and execution to match
Intellectual, as in actually having an intellect ;-)
Dedicated professionally. He takes pride in what he does and aspires to raise above his peers
Strong personality, resting in himself
Resents the mediocre
Fits in social functions with easy, but is content with and revels in periods of silence
Encourages my dreams and supports me in being the best possible version of me
Sense of humor (isn’t that mandatory on lists like this?) Though preferably dark and slightly sarcastic…
Will threat me as his muse, his confidante and his whore.